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Inspirational Thinking

by Victoria Luhring Realty Blog

                  Inspirational Thinking and State of Mind

"You've got to jump off cliffs all the time and build your wings on the way down." by Ray Bradbury

" You can not create experience, you must undergo it."  by Albert Camus

Contagious Positive People

by Victoria Luhring Realty Blog

                        It's Contagious but Good for You!

Make it your resolution for 2010... to be positive for your customers, colleagues, family, and friends.

To wake up, be approachable, and complain less.

To exceed expectations and be more resourceful & resilient in your efforts.

Positive people are contagious, more fun (and makes the days brighter).

Surround yourself with people who are more positive than you are, it's contagious and your sure to get a dose of happiness.

Divorce can bring out the worst in everyone, be who you want to be and remember that your in a situation that will end soon. 

Good Quote - Negative Thoughts

by Victoria Luhring Realty Blog

                    Good Quote about Negative Thoughts

"If you realize how powerful you thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." by: Peace Pilgram
    During your difficult divorce, negative thoughts seem to pop up in your day more than expected.  Keep a Positive out look on a new future.  Change is difficult but keep your life flowing with good energy, negative thoughts can drain your body and energy. 

What's inside People of Toledo

by Victoria Luhring Realty Blog

This doesn't only apply to People in Toledo but to all People.  It can also give you the outside look at what your really made of.

"When you squeeze an orange, orange juice comes out because that is what is inside.  When you are sqeezed what comes out is what is inside."  Thank  Wayne Dyer: for this Inspirational Good Quote. 

What comes out of you when you're pressured, challenged, or staring defeat in the face?
That's about the time when most people crumble and give-up, leaving a trail of tears, shame, and regret in their wake. But then there are the few — those who welcome the challenge. And when pressed, these winners dig deep into their hearts and souls. And what comes out?  by: Wayne Dyer

You will be facing challenges like never before during divorce, moving, job changes, family pressures and the economic changes around you.  The winners dig deep into their heart to find the sweetest juices they can find. 

Cost of Addictions

by Victoria Luhring

This blog can give you a private view of how addictions cause family problems in many ways.  It may or may not be of help to those with or living with an addiction.  See Short Blogs on Addictions, Twiitter Search Abuse.

Your Future

by Victoria Luhring

 

 

"Of all the things that can have an effect on your future,
I believe personal growth is the greatest. We can talk
about sales growth, profit growth, asset growth, but
all of this probably will not happen without personal growth."

 


Jim Rohn

Government Grants

by Victoria Luhring

                  Available Government Grants

During divorce your income may substancially become low enough for you to qualify for one of the many government grants available.  These grants are availalble for those facing extremely low income situations. 

If divorce is putting you into a very low income situation, there may be a grant available to you.  One of these grants may be just what you need until you get back on your feet. 

Control the Arguments

by Victoria Luhring

                    During Divorce start to Control the Arguments

It seems difficult but remember: " You don't have to attend every argument your invited to."   Take control and refuse to participate.

Change the World

by Victoria Luhring

                             Motivational Quotes
"We change the world not by what we say or do, but

as a consequence of what we have become."


David R. Hawkins:
Psychiatrist, spiritual author, and lecturer

Surviving Divorce

by Victoria Luhring

Surviving Divorce

When a divorce is immenent, it's time to address both the legel issues and the emotional titlewave your about to ride.  Unless your a lawyer, the legel issues that will unfold are best left in the hand of a well chosen Lawyer.  A good lawyer will be able to councel you through the neccessary legel issues and put some of your questions to rest.  Don't fight the laws, work within the laws and the advice of your lawyer.  

Steps to Building a Positive Support System:

It's human nature to fear what you don't know and avoid change.  You need to tell family and friends, which isn't easy, but this is an opportunity for some of those relationships to grow while getting their support. 

It is counter-productive and damaging to use the children as leverage.  When the boxing gloves go on for another round between you and your spouse, remember the strain it is putting on the children who are watching or listening.  Children absorb everything and find ways to blaim themselves, become moody, scared, withdrawn and can sense hostility while feeling powerless and vulnerable.   

Even an adult would have trouble dealing with all those emotions at once.  The children need that secure feeling of love from both parents.  A Mother and Father are the two most important people in the children's life, continue to give them the hugs they need, while supporting the love they have for your ex-spouse.   If you can't find the right words to help calm your child, remember a good cuddling sometimes works.  

Try to think of it as a chance at a New Positive Future.   Think of it as a second chance or a do over.  So many people say if they would have known at 18 what they knew at 40, things would be different.  It's not to late to pretend your 18 again and start over with new dreams and goals.  

Support can come from family, friends, church, neighbors, counceling groups, blogs, and even a good book. 

          Your getting a "Do Over" 
       Change can be hard but Good!

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